10 ways to spot deception

Female teenager covering her mouth

Being able to understand body language is almost like reading people’s minds. And wouldn’t we all love to know what others are thinking.

If you want to learn how to use body language to enhance your personal and business relationships, you should read Body Language for Dummies by Elizabeth Kuhnke (2015).

Kuhnke teaches you how to interpret what people really mean by observing their posture, gestures, eye movements, and more. Body Language for Dummies is your guide to decoding body language, and adjusting your own habits to improve your interactions with others.

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How do you know if someone is deceiving you? Here are 10 ways to spot a liar (see Chapter 17, ‘Ten ways to spot deception’, Body Language for Dummies).

Fleeting facial expressions

Look for muscular twitches, dilation and contraction of the pupils, flushed cheeks and sweating. Disregard this if your suspected fibber has just returned from running an errand outside in forty degree heat!

Suppressed facial expressions

Lady Gaga sang ‘he can’t read my poker face’. But you can! Concealing an expression or emotion takes effort. Look for narrowed eyes, a tense forehead and twitching lips.

Little or no eye contact

Possible signs of deception include eye rubbing, and an inability to look you in the eye. There’s also a small possibility they just have something in their eye, or you have remnants of lunch stuck between your teeth and they are embarrassed for you.

Covering the face

Do you typically put you hand to your mouth when you tell a porky? So do others.

Touching the nose

‘When someone lies, it releases chemicals called catecholamines, causing the nasal tissues to swell’ says Kuhnke. ‘This is known as the Pinocchio Response because the nose becomes slightly enlarged…’ And this means the storyteller will touch, tug or scratch their schnoz. On the other hand, they could have allergies, a cold or a rogue nose hair…

What are the other five signs of a fibber? You’ll have to read the book to find out!

One Comment on “10 ways to spot deception”

  1. Shannon Anderson says:

    It would be helpful to others to know that when they are talking to me, I wear dark glasses and have no or only fleeting eye contact. It is not because I’m lying, it is because, like 2% of the population, I am Autistic. We are also known to have muscular twitches, dilation and contraction of the pupils, flushed cheeks and sweating because Panic and Anxiety are by-products of Autism. So while this is a really good read, it needs to include a very important mention of Autism.